We, the Divine Masculine’s of the Twin Flame persuasion find it difficult in our lives to not try and protect our counterparts. Sometimes we may go about it the wrong way but some of us do it out of fear of losing our beloved because the dark has started to see them as an easy target.
But they are not and in trying to protect them we can sometimes harm as well. It is never our intention to do so. Never. But sometimes you must live and learn these things and know that your counterpart will tell you what they want you to do or will want you to do or not do.
It is not our faults that our Divine Feminine’s drive us completely insane with what they do. It is just because that is what they do. They know how to be in this world and how to drive us crazy. What can we do but be driven crazy by them?
All we want to do is touch them in the physical but there are things that separate us that we find we can’t yet. We need to work on ourselves and hope for the best that union will come soon for us so that our minds can be put at some peace.
But, alas, the time for union isn’t now. It’s soon but not now. I wish that we were together now but there would be so many misunderstandings between us that the harmonious dream I have wished for will not come to pass.
A lot of Divine Masculine’s feel the same way as I do and we wonder when it will be the right time to reach out in the physical and there is no right time but we second guess ourselves and keep wanting to type “hi” in messenger but we stop ourselves because wouldn’t that make it real and wouldn’t the expectations of our relationship be put on me now to make it perfect for my counterpart.
How can I make it perfect so that she never thinks about another man? I can’t. It is just about trial and error. We are bound to make mistakes.
After the lust is gone in the first year things may start to come up that we have to work through but I know the time in separation, the time that we are spending now means that we can work together in more harmonious union when the time comes and we have had already a fair few arguments that we know we can talk to the other and work through them.
It isn’t easy. Relationships are never easy, but if it is with you, I don’t think that I will need anyone else to share my lives with. Anyone that came before you was just a place holder for the real thing. There is nothing like you in all of existence that I know of. We could be from many different worlds but nothing is ever going to be like the being that has just been created for me in this life and in all my lives.
I have never felt so grateful to have anyone in my lives more than my twin flame. She is the other part of me. She doesn’t make me whole, but she enhances who I am beyond that. She is a treasure. She is my treasure. She is gold.
We need to start treating our women more like the gold jewels they are. They give our lives meaning. They make homes where there are only houses. They love their men even when we are acting stupid and not standing in our truths. They love us more than we deserve. But we know we are deserving of their love as we know they are deserving of our love and on both sides we are happy to do it. They make it easy. They see us beyond our mistakes.
What we have done to them was never easy to forgive but they do it anyway. They see us for who we could be and not something that we seem to think we are. Their love for us is immovable. Have you ever experienced anything like this before in your lives?
A love where the woman just looks through you to your soul and you know she just sees every part of you, pulls your soul out of your body and takes a really good look at it and then puts it back inside of you like she was just checking to see that you were okay.
The kind of love that lets be. The kind of love that lets you breathe. The kind of love that holds true and never wavers. The kind of love that just accepts that you have done something wrong and instead of chastising you for the wrong you have made she scoffs at your question of “Do you still love me?” She scoffs at your question because she knows your heart and your truth and can’t believe why you are asking such a stupid question to her again.
You tell her that your insecurities are rising to the surface and she smiles and agrees that hers are coming up to. There’s not a lot left to say but twin flames let each other be who they were always meant to be. And honestly, I know it will not be perfect when the time comes for a lifetime of harmonious union because we will probably argue quite a bit but I just have to say that the making up will be worth it.
Being with someone who makes you breathe easy, where you don’t have to walk on eggshells because your girl is not going to yell at you for making a mess, or forgetting an anniversary or birthday but will instead want to hug you in your time of regret and just hold you because she was noticing the way the pressure of the world was starting to feel on your shoulders and was waiting for you to come to her and talk about it but you never did.
That is what I am waiting for with union with my Twin Flame. Her heart is why I need her. Her heart is why I am supposed to be curled in her arms right now. Her heart is the only thing that the world should cherish. That goes for all twin flames. Your counterpart is the person where the war you face together, you face it as one.
My twin has my back as I have hers. I forgive her as she forgives me, and she has had to forgive so many different things in the short time she has had of remembering me. But love won out for her. Unconditional love has won out for her. I don’t believe the naysayers who say unconditional love doesn’t exist on earth because it does.
It can exist with one single person and you just wait and see the whole world will start to feel what it means to unconditionally love someone for everything they are or have been. My twin flame holds me up, she gives me power and strength to keep going. I can now tell her my crap and she can let it flow off her shoulders into the water she wades through beneath.
She has grown so much that I will let her do anything she wants to me, like hug me for hours on end. I will let her. She is like coming home. Her eyes are like coming home. That is the twin flame. The meaning of it that everyone tries to define. The twin flame phenomena is about coming home. And yes, soul mates can have that same feeling but it is not as strong. But as a twin flame I wish that all of you will be able to experience that true sense of home with whoever comes into your life.
I am Richard, a true Twin Flame Divine Masculine of true source of love and light and I thank you for listening. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
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